Are you a convenience?

Don’t be a convenience to anyone!  You and your time are valuable all the time not just when someone needs you to fulfil their needs. You teach people how to treat you.  If they can call you anytime and you are always available or you are willing to cancel plans just to do what they want […]

The friendship is over

Should I Reveal her Secrets?

Tee, I recently ended a longtime friendship with a friend and I am still so angry with her that I feel like I should reveal her secrets.  Do you think that is a good idea or should I still keep her secrets? Camille G. Hi Camille, I’m sorry that your friendship has ended.  It is […]

Male frienemies are rare.

Frienemies: A Like Story

Frienemies: A Like Story By Stephen Holmes  The world lexicon is in perpetual flux. Imagine Snookie drunkenly berating one of her equals or lessers (wrap your mind around that for a moment) while using the Queen’s English. “Thou best not be speaking to me, skank!” Even better, imagine an MLB player being ejected from a […]

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What is a friend?

What is a friend?

by LaToya Byfield Is a friend someone you love or  like? Would you let them ride your bike? Would you let him or her in your home? Would you let them use your comb? Would you help him up when he stumbles along the way? Or would you look away? Would you share your eats? […]

Do you have time for me?

Time Management: Do You Have Time For Me?

Don’t leave your friends asking “do you have time for me“? Take time to appreciate your friends. A simple phone call, or text saying “hello” or “how are you?” sometimes is enough.   Remember your friends have their own lives to live and even though everyone is busy it is important to make your friends […]

best friend award

Friend of the Year!

My friend Lisa is the friend of the year. I’m so glad to have found this site. So often we have great friends but we do not get to show our appreciation of their friendship. I want to say thank you to my best friend Lisa for being the very best friend anyone could ask […]

I am as smart as you!