betraying a friend

Tired of being a Homework Helper

Hi Tee, I have a serious problem.  I have a very lazy friend who doesn’t want to do his own homework. I was supposed to be a homework helper not the homework doer. We’re in the same class and he always wants me to help him with his homework but then I end up doing […]

Honesty is more important - AboutYourfriends

Which is More Important Honesty or Respect?

Gina:  Which is more important honesty or respect? Tee:  They are both important and both are necessary in any relationship.  I would say honesty is more important. Why you say? Well you can respect someone and still lie to them but if you are honest then the truth will be revealed which includes whether or […]

The friendship is over

Should I Reveal her Secrets?

Tee, I recently ended a longtime friendship with a friend and I am still so angry with her that I feel like I should just tell her secrets.  Do you think that is a good idea or should I still keep her secrets? Camille G. Hi Camille, I’m sorry that your friendship has ended.  It […]

Should I Tell?

Dear Tee, I recently saw my friend’s boyfriend kissing another girl at the movies. Should I tell her? Now here’s the thing we’ve been friends for 5 years and we are the best of friends but I don’t know if I should tell her or not. What if she gets mad at me for telling […]

Roommate Drama!

This is my first year in college and my roommate has her boyfriend sleeping over but she never asked me if this is ok.  So far we have been getting along but I am not comfortable with this guy in the room with me.  Should I tell her? – Suzanne J.  Tee:  Of course you should […]