Contrary to popular opinion kindness has not gone out of style. It can be as simple as holding the elevator door when you see someone rushing to catch it. If you can do that for a stranger think how much being kind to your friend will mean to him or her. It does not cost you anything to be nice. Often you do not have to go out of your way or inconvenience yourself to be nice. People will always remember how you made them feel so be kind.