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Honesty is more important - AboutYourfriends

Which is More Important Honesty or Respect?

Gina:  Which is more important honesty or respect? Tee:  They are both important and both are necessary in any relationship.  I would say honesty is more important. Why you say? Well you can respect someone and still lie to them but if you are honest then the truth will be revealed which includes whether or […]

Are you a convenience?

Don’t be a convenience to anyone!  You and your time are valuable all the time not just when someone needs you to fulfil their needs. You teach people how to treat you.  If they can call you anytime and you are always available or you are willing to cancel plans just to do what they want […]

My Father, My Friend!

As I celebrate another father’s day I of course think of my father who passed away almost three years ago. I miss my dad singing happy birthday to me, his voice, his fatherly advice and seeing him on stage. Music was in his blood and the only thing he loved more than music was the […]

The friendship is over

Should I Reveal her Secrets?

Tee, I recently ended a longtime friendship with a friend and I am still so angry with her that I feel like I should reveal her secrets.  Do you think that is a good idea or should I still keep her secrets? Camille G. Hi Camille, I’m sorry that your friendship has ended.  It is […]

Male frienemies are rare.

Frienemies: A Like Story

Frienemies: A Like Story By Stephen Holmes  The world lexicon is in perpetual flux. Imagine Snookie drunkenly berating one of her equals or lessers (wrap your mind around that for a moment) while using the Queen’s English. “Thou best not be speaking to me, skank!” Even better, imagine an MLB player being ejected from a […]

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God’s Whispers of Love for Me

By Icy B. George It’s amazing!  I remember growing up always hearing the saying “if you want to know who your friends are, let something tragic happen to you” and wondering to myself, I have good friends that could never happen to me. Boy was I ever wrong.  I have always taken pride of considering […]

What is a friend?

What is a friend?

by LaToya Byfield Is a friend someone you love or  like? Would you let them ride your bike? Would you let him or her in your home? Would you let them use your comb? Would you help him up when he stumbles along the way? Or would you look away? Would you share your eats? […]

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Roommate Drama!

Dear Tee:  I’ve got roommate drama. This is my first year in college and my roommate has her boyfriend sleeping over but she never asked me if this is ok.  So far we have been getting along but I am not comfortable with this guy in the room with me.  Should I tell her? – Suzanne […]

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Friend of the Year!

My friend Lisa is the friend of the year. I’m so glad to have found this site. So often we have great friends but we do not get to show our appreciation of their friendship. I want to say thank you to my best friend Lisa for being the very best friend anyone could ask […]

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